Well true regarding itemization and 1.9 patch , problem here is that until 1.9 patch we had Seal and Judgement of Fury which doesn't exist in Nostalrius . (the reason why pre 1.9 we didn't need spell damage ) .
Anyway our Weakness is not starving for Def Cap surviving in Pre Raid Gear (without quel serar) we have still items to replace and fix this so we don't risk the aggro and mana issue.
Keep in mind aggro is also part of surviving "more aggro = more dps = less damage taken overall and less mana used by Healers"
Another thing is we don't have DR 10% but we have 30% BV by Shield .
(which in a way they get equal to certain degree) . 30% BV is stronger than 10% DR in 5mans and MC,BWL (except breathing bosses where DR wins) .
I also made list using "short names" to reach Def Cap Preraid (without quel serrar) so you can use Spell Damage Weapon and have Def Cap at the same time Pre raid (current patch) .
https://forum.nostalrius.org/viewtopic. ... 6&start=10Enchanted Thorium Helm 9 + Medallion of Grand Marshal Morris 10 + Stockade Pauldrons 10 + Redoubt Cloak 7 + Deathbone Chest 17 + Fel Hardened Bracers 3 + Stonegrip Gauntlets 10 +Legplates of the Eternal Guardian 22 + 2x Drakeclaw Band 8 + Force of Will 10 + dracon shield 15 + 9 from 3x Core Armor Kit (chest,feet,gloves)= 130 + Anticipation Talent 10 = 140 Defense
That was the "pre raid gear" for Def cap .
Trinket = Either pvp one or Diremaul West
Belt = i heard there is some green belt with defense but i am not so sure which one and where it drop.
Feets = choose any with good stamina
Weapon = i don't want to end myself in the corner of "paladins can't tank because they oom or bad aggro" so i go for spell damage with sp ench + wizard oil + greater arcane elixir.
But yeah i talk offtopic sorry i just gave tip of the "preraid Gear" for the current patch.
My personal goal was (we need def cap+100 sp+stamina) as preraid , (def cap+lot stamina+150 sp) midd raid , (def cap+maximum stamina we can gain+avoidance+200 sp) high end raid.
"Why i mention stamina? Because it is our main surviving weakness" .
"Why i mention sp? Because bad aggro and oom is our main issue" .
"Why i mention def cap? Because it make us more stable and viable tanks".
"Why i mention avoidance for high end? Early raids are more oriented in Fire Spells , midd raid are more oriented in Nature,High end is oriented on both Melee and Elemental Schools".
Today this morning i have seen also at least 15 groups for Diremaul West thou , but well i guess you had some bad luck .1.9+ when it come , there will be lot more changes regarding gear etc
(sorry for my bad english spelling) .