Wont let me log in

[Armitee]

I get the connecting screen for about 5 minutes then disconnected

[Krusher]

can you try it again?

[Wolfera]

same here. after i had a huge lag, i lost my connection to the server, but it didnt disconnected me! my char stucked in somehow, i could move but couldnt cast anything. after that i closed the client, but i still cant connect (2hrs now). same happened yesterday evening, but a server restart helped me out.
any GM know wtf is this? I never had a similar problem before on other private servers.