Unable to connect past "Logging into game server"

I'm sorry if this has been addressed previously but I've read through the stickied topics on connection issues and am still unable to login. I get stuck on the "logging into server" prompt for about 10 seconds then get booted back to the realm list. I am able to login to an alternate (pve) realm just fine, but not when logging into the pvp realm my character is on. I was initially disconnected from the game after being unable to talk to a flight path npc in Thunderbluff.
I have tried deleting wtf/wdb/interface folders, port forwarding, running as admin, reinstalling, changing the realmlist.wtf and waiting a few hours all to no avail.
please help!
I have tried deleting wtf/wdb/interface folders, port forwarding, running as admin, reinstalling, changing the realmlist.wtf and waiting a few hours all to no avail.
please help!