when it comes to taking nodes from other people (herb/mining). Some things are understandable.
-you see a node, another person sees a node.. and you both race to it. nothing wrong with that.
-you are killing to a node, another guy swoops in and takes it as you aggro the last mob, aggravating but nothing wrong with it.
BUT, what i think is complete crap and should be bannable/suspendable or considered harassment is this. Another player aggroing mobs, mobs not even within aggro range of the node, and dropping those mob's threat onto you. This forces you to kill something you had no need to kill. And while you are dealing with a mob you didnt even aggro, the other person takes the node.
This is just so, idk... sooo rude(for lack of words id like to use) it needs to be considered harassment.
Healthy competition is good, but screwing people over is something else entirely.