The vanilla experience?

I started playing on nost a few month ago, when there were around 7k ppl online at peaktimes and weekend.
it was sometimes hard to get your mobs and lootable items for your quests, but with a little patience it worked well.
u also got killed often, but im playing on a pvp-realm and you got to expect gangs from time to time.
i really enjoyed playing on nost these times.
a few month later there are usually 10k+ ppl online with a peak of 13k (!!!) ppl online.
questing got impossible, due to permagangs of highlvl allies/hordies, that want to reserve the mobs q-items for their lower mates/chars.
even your own fraction lets u die when u pulled too many mobvs to have them for thereself.
i usually dont have time to regg when respawning, cuz there are enemy-fraction players everywhere.
there is overpopulation everywhere....
as far as i know the amount of player able to logg on a realm in classic was about 3k for BOTH fractions.
playing on nost nowadays has nothing in common with the experienxe i had back in the days of official classic and also nothing with the feeling i had when i started a few months ago
im starting to ask myself where this is going?
is this really where the devs want this server to go?
it was sometimes hard to get your mobs and lootable items for your quests, but with a little patience it worked well.
u also got killed often, but im playing on a pvp-realm and you got to expect gangs from time to time.
i really enjoyed playing on nost these times.
a few month later there are usually 10k+ ppl online with a peak of 13k (!!!) ppl online.
questing got impossible, due to permagangs of highlvl allies/hordies, that want to reserve the mobs q-items for their lower mates/chars.
even your own fraction lets u die when u pulled too many mobvs to have them for thereself.
i usually dont have time to regg when respawning, cuz there are enemy-fraction players everywhere.
there is overpopulation everywhere....
as far as i know the amount of player able to logg on a realm in classic was about 3k for BOTH fractions.
playing on nost nowadays has nothing in common with the experienxe i had back in the days of official classic and also nothing with the feeling i had when i started a few months ago

im starting to ask myself where this is going?
is this really where the devs want this server to go?